Polyamory & Open Relationship Coaching
When Love Expands, It
Asks More of You
Polyamory and open relationships are an invitation to deepen: self-awareness, communication,
and courage.
They can bring joy, intimacy, and freedom — and they also reveal the parts of us that are still
learning how to love with honesty and steadiness.
Maybe you’re opening your relationship for the first time and it feels both thrilling and terrifying.
Maybe you’ve been in non-monogamy for years but keep circling the same patterns — jealousy,
emotional shutdowns, communication breakdowns.
Whatever brought you here, you’re ready for something more grounded:
a way of loving that honors freedom and safety, individuality and devotion.
That’s where I come in.
What We Explore Together
relationship with clarity, consent,
and compassion
Rebuilding
trust after ruptures
or betrayals
Navigating
jealousy and emotional triggers
with skill and care
Strengthening
communication and nervous
system awareness
Creating and
maintaining agreements that
actually work
Expanding erotic expression
while staying connected to heart
and integrity
Imagine a New Way of Loving
Conflict becomes connection. Even hard conversations end in closeness, not collapse. Boundaries feel liberating. They keep love safe, not small.
Jealousy becomes a teacher. Instead of spiraling, you listen, regulate, and grow. Desire feels honest again. Pleasure is sacred because your whole self is invited.
This is what conscious, open relationships can look and feel like — expansive, rooted, and alive.
About Laurie Ellington
Founder of Poly-Coach | Trauma-Informed Relationship & Intimacy Coach
For over a decade, I’ve helped individuals and couples navigate the real edges of love — from the first talk about opening up to the tender process of rebuilding trust.
My background weaves together:
- Somatic Experiencing (SE) and nervous system regulation
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)-informed coaching
- Tantra & Conscious Kink principles for embodied connection
- Trauma-informed communication tools for clarity and care
My work is not clinical or one-size-fits-all. It’s a human-to-human space for growth, truth, and deeper connection.
Polyamory, like any spiritual path, asks us to evolve toward self-trust, empathy, and embodied freedom.
That’s the journey we walk together.
How We Work Together
Every session is collaborative and experiential. We start where you are and move toward where you want to be, integrating body, emotion, and insight.
Discovery & Intention
Practice & Integration
Embodiment Between Sessions
Ongoing Support
This is high-touch, human coaching — you won’t be doing it alone.
What You Can Expect to Experience
Feeling safe in
your own body during
difficult emotions
Creating and
maintaining agreements that
actually work
Renewed
erotic connection that feels authentic and alive
Greater
capacity to love without
losing yourself
Integration of past experiences so they no
longer drive the present
The Emotional Investment
This isn’t passive learning.
You’ll practice reflection, honest communication, and embodied regulation between sessions. Expect to spend time each week connecting intentionally with yourself, your partner(s), and your truth.
Real Journeys, Real Transformation
“For the first time, jealousy didn’t break us. It became a doorway to deeper honesty.”
– M & T, Colorado
“We came to Laurie afraid our open relationship was failing. We left feeling more connected than ever.”
– S & R, New York
“I learned that boundaries aren’t walls—they’re acts of love.”
– A., California
Virtual Coaching Worldwide
Sessions are confidential. There is never any sexual contact involved.
Ready to Begin Your Journey?
Wherever you are — curious, expanding, or healing — there’s a place for you here.
Begin Your Journey
Deepen & Expand
Repair & Rebuild
Final Invitation
Your relationships aren’t broken — they’re becoming. With presence, skill, and care, you can create the kind of love that’s honest, erotic, and deeply alive.
I’d be honored to walk beside you.
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